@W-21749060 fix: update first time site creation instructions

skills/generating-experience-lwr-site/docs/bootstrap-template-byo-lwr.md

@@ -18,11 +18,60 @@ Ask user to choose:
 
 ### Option 1: Create in Org
 
+**Step 1:** Run the create command:
+
 ```bash
-sf community create --name "{siteName}" --template-name 'Build Your Own (LWR)' --url-path-prefix "{prefix}"
+sf community create --name "{siteName}" --template-name 'Build Your Own (LWR)' --url-path-prefix "{prefix}" --json
 ```
 
-After creation, retrieve metadata using sf CLI.
+Site creation is an async job. As soon as the terminal returns output, capture the `jobId` and move on — do not wait for the shell command to fully exit.
+
+**Step 2:** Ask the user: *"Would you like me to wait for the site creation to complete and then retrieve the metadata for you, or would you prefer to retrieve it yourself once it's ready?"*
+
+**Stop here and wait for the user's response before proceeding.**
+
+---
+
+**If the user wants to wait and retrieve:**
+
+Poll the `BackgroundOperation` object using the following command, replacing `{jobId}` with the ID returned from the create command:
+
+```soql
+SELECT Status FROM BackgroundOperation WHERE Id = '{jobId}'
+```
+
+Use the MCP tool `run_soql_query` to run this query on the given target org. Repeat until `Status` is `Complete`. 
+
+Once complete, run each of the following retrieval commands **one at a time**. Do not chain them together (e.g. do not use `&&`). Wait for each command to return output before running the next:
+
+```bash
+sf project retrieve start --metadata DigitalExperienceBundle --target-org {usernameOrAlias} --json
+```
+
+```bash
+sf project retrieve start --metadata DigitalExperienceConfig --target-org {usernameOrAlias} --json
+```
+
+```bash
+sf project retrieve start --metadata Network --target-org {usernameOrAlias} --json
+```
+
+```bash
+sf project retrieve start --metadata CustomSite --target-org {usernameOrAlias} --json
+```
+
+---
+
+**If the user wants to retrieve themselves:**
+
+Provide them with the retrieval command to run once the site is ready:
+
+```bash
+sf project retrieve start --metadata DigitalExperienceBundle DigitalExperienceConfig Network CustomSite --target-org {usernameOrAlias} --json
+```
+
+---
+
 
 ### Option 2: Scaffold Locally